The number one reason why you may not be able to get it to work for you is the fact that you aren’t using the best timing. You may think that you can find instant results, but there are some goals (like weight loss) that will take some extra work. You need to set your sights small and your timing small and keep building on it. For example, ask yourself to lose two pounds this week. At the end the week if you meet your goals, ask again and again until you meet your final goal. Also, keep in mind that the whole theory is that you ask yourself for something, but that you also ask the universe to help you to deliver the success. You need to know that the universe doesn’t work quickly and it doesn’t do quick fixes. You need to allow yourself to have the time and energy to work on the goal.
The second most people reason why things don’t work out is the fact that you may be trying too hard. You need to know that the universe only works when it is balanced. You will need to focus on the task, but you also need to pay attention to all the other aspects of your life or the universe will pull your entire like out of whack. You need to learn how to keep your life balanced for the universe to work with the positive energy.
Also, you may just be way too needy. There are so many people who think that if they ask the world for it, it will deliver, but the universe doesn’t work like that. You need keep your attitude positive, your life balanced, and sometimes you just need to let go of the control and let it be. Sometimes things will go right if you learn to just back down. This doesn’t mean that you have to move on, but you need to learn how to meet your goals while working on having true happiness.
Could it be that you take yourself way too serious? If you are looking for happiness and success, well, sometimes you got to laugh. It’s like in the movie the “Money Pit”. Things got so bad that Tom Hanks’ character just had to burst into laugher, and things got better. No one should ever take themselves too serious or you will lose sight of everything and you’ll be oblivious to what reality really is like.
The last secret to making it work for you is you need to be open to the universe. Maybe the universe knows what is best for you and instead of giving you what you want; it gives you what you need. You need to be open to receive it, so that you can find your happily-ever-after. Keep in mind that nothing is ever according to plan and that it is sometimes best to go off the beaten path.